Terms of Use

Last updated October 2026. Kom Braai By My is free. We never take payment, tips, or donations through this site.

Disclaimer: Kom Braai By My is a community site to help South Africans in the US connect and make friends. It is not affiliated with, endorsed by, or connected to any government, refugee resettlement agency or immigration service, and it gives no legal, refugee or immigration advice. For official help, contact your resettlement agency or USCIS directly.

What this site is for

Friendship only. Host or join braais and watch parties with other South Africans in the US. No dating marketplace, no politics, no scams, no immigration advice.

Your account

You must be 18 or older. Use a real first name people can call you. Do not share someone else’s personal information. You can delete your account at any time from your profile. Meet in public first. Home braais only after trust.

Content and safety

Do not post hate, threats, spam, or anything that asks for money or “expedited” immigration help. Report events, posts, or members that break these rules. You may block another member so you no longer see them. We may remove content or accounts that harm the community.

Liability

Events are organised by members, not by us. You are responsible for your own safety. The site is provided as-is. Privacy details are in the Privacy Policy. Contact via the site owner if you need to reach us.